as the advice which i learnt from the book <between parent and child>, the key point is "do not anwser all the questions", the more you answered, the more kids ask. They suggested to find out the reason of asking those questions, rather than giving anwsers.

According to the question "when are we going to go back to mommy's?", we should try to understand her feeling, and say "you miss your mommy, right?", then she might think "dad knew me..." and will stop tracing with same question..

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原帖由 冰城来客 于 2009-4-1 11:57 发表
You are right!

But i still think many Chinese men are not as responsible as foreiners as a divoiced farther.

Also this situlation make many mon darn't divoice with their husband, even they don't ...

agreed!.

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原帖由 nice妈妈 于 2009-4-1 13:44 发表
moreover, if we can not rely on others, we rely on ourselves. it is merphy's law, if anything can go wrong, it will.
but if you have prepared for all the worst, it won't come.

exactly!.