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感恩的故事

今天是感恩节，不知道是谁发了这个给我，贴出来与大家分享。
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一名成績優秀的青年去申請一個大公司的經理職位。 One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.
他通過了第一級的面試，董事長做最後的面試，做最後的決定 。
He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision .

董事長從該青年的履歷上發現，該青年成績一 貫優秀，從中學到研究生從來沒有間斷過 。
The director discovered from the CV,  that the youth's academic result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never has a year he did not score .

董事長問，你在學校裏拿到獎學金嗎？該青年回答，沒有。
The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarship in school?" and the youth answered "none".

董事長問，是你的父親 為您付學費嗎？該青年回答，我父親在我一歲時就去世了，是我的母親給我付的學費 。
The director asked, " Is it your father pay for your school fees?" the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it is my mother who paid for my school fees .

董事長問，那你的母親是在那家公司高就？該 青年回答，我的母親是給人洗衣服的 。
董事長要求該青年把手伸給他，該青年把一雙潔白的手伸給董事長 。
The director asked, " Where did your mother worked?" the youth answered, my mother worked as cloth cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that is smooth and perfect to the director .

董事長問，你幫你母 親洗過衣服嗎？該青年回答，從來沒有，我媽總是要我多讀書，再說，母親洗衣服比我快得多 。
The director asked, " Did you ever help your mother washed the cloth before?" The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, my mother can wash cloths faster than me .
董事長說，我有個要求，你今天回家，給你母 親洗一次雙手，明天上午你再來見我 。
The director said, I had a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mother's hand, and then see me tomorrow morning .
該青年覺得自己成功的可能很大，回到家後，高高興興地要給母親洗手，母親受寵若驚地把手伸給孩子 。
The youth felt that its chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hand, his mother feel strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hand to the kid .

該 青年給母親洗著手，漸漸地，眼淚掉下來了，因為他第一次發現，他母親的雙手都是老繭，有個傷口在碰到水時還疼得發抖 。
The youth cleaned his mother's hand slowly, his tear drop down as he did that.  It is first time he found his mother's hand is so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incites pains so strong that shiver her mother's body when cleaned with water .
青年第一次體會到，母親就是 每天用這雙有傷口的手洗衣服為他付學費，母親的這雙手就是他今天畢業的代價 。
This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the school fees, the bruises in the mother's hand is the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future .
該青年給母親洗完手後，一聲不響地把母親剩下要洗的衣服都洗了 。
After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother .
當天晚上，母親和孩子聊了很久很久 。
That night, mother and sons talked for a very long time .

第二天早上，該青年去見董事長 。
Next morning , the youth went to the director's office

董事長望著該青年紅腫的眼睛，問到，可以告訴我你昨天回家做了些什麼嗎 ？
The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye, asked: " Can you tell you what have you done and learned yesterday in your house ?"
該青年回答說 ， 我給母親洗完手之後 ， 我幫母親把剩下的衣服都洗了 。
The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
董事長說，請你告訴我你的感受 。
The director asked , " please tell me your feeling ."

該青年說，第一 ， 我懂得了感恩，沒有我母親，我不可能有今天 。 第二，我懂得了要去
和母親一起勞動，才會知道母親的辛苦 。 第三，我懂得了家庭親情的可貴
The youth said, Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done.  Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship .

董事長說，我就是要錄取一個會 感恩，會體會別人辛苦，不是把金錢當作人生第一目標的人來當經理。你被錄取了 。
The director said, " This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired .
這位青年後來果真工作努力，深得職工擁護，員工也都努力工作，整個公司業績大幅成長 。
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company's result improved tremendously .

假如一位孩子從小嬌生慣養， 習 慣了被人圍著寵著 ， 什麼都是 “ 我 ” 第一，父母的辛苦都不知道，上班後，以為同事都應該聽他的，當了經理後，不知道員工的辛苦，還要怨天尤人。這樣的人，會有好的學校成績，會有得意風光的一時，但社會上的這類人，都不能成大事，都不會感覺到幸福，都要跌跟鬥，那父母是愛孩子呢還是害孩子呢 ？
A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed "entitlement mentality" and always put himself first. He is ignorance of his parent's effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others.  For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid ?
你可以讓你的孩子住 大房子，吃大餐，學鋼琴，看大屏電視，但你在割草時，也要讓你的孩子在大太陽下拔拔野草，你在吃飯後，也要讓你的孩子洗洗碗，不是你沒有錢雇人，而是你真心愛孩子。你要讓孩子知道，即使父母掙不少錢，但早早的白髮，和那位洗衣服的母親沒有本質的差別。但更重要的是，要讓你的孩子學會感恩 。
You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way.  You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get thing done..

沙发！

好帖！！！！！！.

顶一下.

感恩的心，感恩生活！.

英文不地道。估计是从中文翻译过去的。.

晚饭的碗都是小东西洗的
有时俺们难得先洗了
他还不乐意
每天做完作业他都会自觉去厨房的.

可现在有几个孩子能做到？都是独生子女，被宠坏了，不知道分享。不知道谦让。中国的五千年的优良传统文化，短短几十年被丧失殆尽。唉…….

[quote]原帖由 [i]火车是运茶的[/i] 于 2010-11-25 17:55 发表 [url=http://ww123.net/baby/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=7833256&ptid=4770011][img]http://ww123.net/baby/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
英文不地道。估计是从中文翻译过去的。 [/quote]
:P :P:lol :lol.

回复 6#龙宝娘 的帖子

好孩子！抱抱！.

很有启发
有时候是忽略了许多事 许多应该做的事.

我今天布置了两个作业。
学校里，至少和10个同学拥抱一下，表示几年来一起学习，生活的感谢，孩子们特别快乐，当然，很多孩子也和我进行了拥抱。有一个女生告诉我，把所有的同学都拥抱了一次，看到他们快乐的神情，由衷的高兴。

回家作业：拥抱父母，感谢他们十年来的关心照顾，不知道回家作业做了吗？.

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好孩子！抱抱！ [/quote]
是啊
谢谢芬迪阿姨
他洗得很干净的，还把盆杯碟都整理得井井有条
我也很佩服滴;P.

从小就让孩子做力所能及的事情，象朋友一样跟他讨论做事情的苦与乐，而不是一边强调父母的辛苦，一边却又继续包揽。.

我们还是做个懒惰点的父母培养个勤快孩子吧。:lol.

[quote]原帖由 [i]火车是运茶的[/i] 于 2010-11-25 17:55 发表 [url=http://ww123.net/baby/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=7833256&ptid=4770011][img]http://ww123.net/baby/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
英文不地道。估计是从中文翻译过去的。 [/quote]
英文确实很烂，编个励志故事还要崇洋媚外。[em16] [em16].

多好的董事长.

回复 1#旺旺她爸 的帖子

怀疑是好事者编的，然后翻译成英语，再译成中文。

按照文中逻辑，董事长已经知道这个应聘者既不会动手干活也从不知道体谅母亲的艰辛，典型的中国下一代，还会给聘用他，就因为一个晚上。

母亲洗衣服的故事大概源自基辛格的身世。.

回复 6#龙宝娘 的帖子

学习你：）争取培养未来好老公。

俺家小东西会做，偶然洗一次收拾得比我们还好，就是舍不得他时间，总想多一点让他睡觉呵呵。.

穷人的孩子早当家呢。有钱的人家孩子就体会不到这些，因为家长现在也啥事不干，没法让孩子感觉到辛劳.

回复 1#旺旺她爸 的帖子

非常好的故事，只有真实的经历，才会有真实的感受，受用了。.

前段时间不是有个洗脚的贴吗？也是啥董事长要求应聘的年轻人给老妈洗脚后再录取的。.

我们家的倒是挺故意洗碗的，就是没时间，每天作业都来不及弄.